Hi Darling,

It just happens, someone walks into the coffee/tea shop and our mind says “Wow, look at that color combination!” or “That person uses a lot of salt.”

The mind does it, before we can stop it!

We have a laugh at ourselves.

I want to see everyone as just beautiful souls, and not their exterior and it is a challenge.

Christine Souci

We judge everyday, everything, positive or negative.  We judge people, places and things.  Becoming conscious of this behavior and a desire to change to positive witnessing is step 1.  What do I mean by positive witnessing?  This is a concept I came up with to help myself see past the superficial exteriors of clothing, hairdos,  size or shape, and to find one positive thing about someone and focus on that.

The best antidote for this judging to me is when we really look into each other’s eyes. That is a beautiful, powerful connection, without judgement.