Hi Darling,
I read a quote recently that said “Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us what we need to learn”.
I say Amen to that, and you get it… when you get it!
Relationships, are sacred ground. Whether it’s an intimate relationship with a spouse or partner, a friendship, your children, be grateful for ALL relationships. If you believe, as I do, that we are here on this earth to learn, then you can stop beating yourself up for what you see as past mistakes, and just take them as learning experiences. In other words you are just doing and experiencing what you came here for.
Be grateful for whoever stretched you to help you grow. People and experiences come to us for our growth. Although it may not feel like it at the time, we can be grateful for our life lessons.